What does losing weight mean to you? Do those two words (ie. losing weight) make you grimace? Does the thought of losing weight make you think of starvation and sore muscles?
Maybe those are the reasons that losing weight seems so hard and impossible to most people. Losing weight just seems a pretty painful process overall.
If you think this way then you need to change your mind set. It is very possible to eat foods you love, exercise rarely and still end up losing weight.